That was Capitalism explained with a funny metaphor.

I must confess I hesitated before writing this post, mostly, because I didn’t want it to look like if I was bullying a person for the way how he feels, I honestly don’t know him, but I know many people who feel like he feels.

So, why not? those are basically the topics I am writing about in this blog.

Often times, I see people who are struggling with themselves, so what I am trying to do here is to show them the world from another perspective. If you feel like You are right and I am wrong, Talk is cheap. Facts don’t care about your feelings.

Happiness is a choice. Not being miserable is a choice. You choose the life you want to live.

Whatever…

If you are still a curious soul, just go ahead and read…

The story began last week when I was checking my Facebook and I found a post written by a 45- year-old guy.

His friend, the one who shared the post of the man in question, refers to him as “one of the smartest people he knew”, he said his friend is “well-educated and has a well-paid job”.

I have to admit that I didn’t take the post so serious until his friend said these words:

“He wrote about this sensitive topic because it bothers him”

…But, What was the Topic at Hand?

Long story short, he was complaining about how pissed off he was about Dancing Girls going viral on TikTok...

Through his written words, he sounded disappointed about the fact that “Beautiful Women with Low IQ” -his words, not mine- are having more Likes and Followers than his brilliant posts.

And, from what I gather, his frustration is growing every time he feels like he is not getting the attention he thinks he deserves on TikTok.

…Aren’t Straight Men supposed to like Women? I mean, look at her, isn’t She really cute!

▶️ Watch the video

Did you have the guts to ignore her?

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If Idiots Could Fly, TikTok would be the Airport…

After reading his post, I thought to myself two things:

1. Man, If you are that brilliant, what the heck are you doing wasting your time on Tiktok? Not even a shallow person like me has that app on her phone. 🙄
2. But Okay, let’s suppose that TikTok is relevant, if you want to give it a try, instead of bitching about beautiful women on TikTok, you should do your research and try to understand Basic Market Economics first.

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I’m not an expert, but even Beautiful Dumb girls like me know this: 💅

First Principle:

Value is realized through exchange and comes from (subjective) preferences.

I am surprised how many of these bourgeois intellectuals, don’t seem to be getting across the most basic principles of economics.

Learn this and learn it well:

The amount of time and effort that you put into producing something, gives no value to that product, it is the consumer who decides what it is worth.

The essence of creating value is trading something that is low cost to you for something that is of high value to your consumer.

So, if, for instance, there is somebody else out there whose combination of their wealth and its usefulness to them makes them value it more than you do, then you can trade it away to them directly or indirectly for stuff that you value more.

In short, things have value not because of the money, time and the brain cells you used to produce that something, but because of the value that somebody else is giving to it.

For instance, try to sell a Kobe Steak to a vegetarian and see what happens…

Second Principle:

The Key to Markets is the concept of Voluntary Exchange

No Exchange takes place unless Both Parties Benefit.

A market is any place where buyers and sellers meet by free will to exchange goods and services. The eventual result of voluntary exchange is that sellers cannot make themselves better off without making something that makes buyers better off.

So, if I have something You want, and if You have something I want, then we both can make a voluntary transaction where both parties are better off, if not, we won’t trade.

There must be a fair exchange, if we both want to feel satisfied.

Third Principle:

You got to Pick a Niche and a Target Market

If You Choose to Serve Everyone, You Will Serve No One.

These successful people on Internet were once everyday people like you and me. What made the difference was that they decided to consistently post stuff online that could only be interesting for the niche of their choice.  

If you want something transactional and popular, create singular content,

If You Want to build a Large Brand, Do What You Love.

If you want to build something meaningful, be yourself, your niche is you, don’t be a poser, everyone is holding back their full self and then they are like thinking that if they do or say something they are going to be portrayed as idiots.

Who cares, for every 9 people who dislike you there is at least 1 who likes you

Just keep creating for the pleasure of it and let the audience decide if it is worth following. No matter how much time it takes.

The Key to Failure is Trying to Please Everyone

You are The Brand! – Build your Own Personal Branding

The key premise of personal branding is that everyone has one but not everybody manages it strategically, effectively, and consistently.

Beyond getting people to know you, think about what you want to be known for.

If by some chance you want to compete against dancing TikTok girls, unless that you are Rurik Gislason, I don’t see much of a future for you.

Most People have not taken The Time to identify their Personal Brand

Sometimes you can have the passion and the strength, but the time is bad, so there is no opportunity.

Like for us who didn’t grow up surrounded by social media can be hard to fit in this new universe of opportunities. We are not teenagers anymore, by the time we become adults, we are in survival mode, and basically, we have little time to reflect on what we want, what are we passionate about and the change we would like to see in the world.

Right now, personal branding is booming like never before, people are starting brand themselves, everyone is in a battle for the most clicks because a big social media following can mean big money.

So, I think you are making a serious mistake if you think that putting yourself up on a pedestal will make your followers to look up to you. That’s wrong, what great influencers do is that they put their audience up on a pedestal and is they who look up to them.

People who Engage with your Posts want to Engage You in Return.

So, if you see TikTok girls trying to get closer to their audience and making personal interactions with their followers, what they are trying to do is basically engaging them more to their content. Viewers like it, Algorithm likes it too, both will reward them, so who are we to judge them?

The Best Relationships are not about what you can do for someone but rather How You Make Them Feel.

Remember, sometimes it is not just about the content, you are also selling something that people can relate to and connect with.

People don’t follow you because who you are, people follow you because of who they are, in other words, is not about you, is about them. They want to see themselves reflected on you, they want to connect and feel inspire.

Most important, they want you to make them feel good…

Everything is about satisfactory exchanges!

Last Principle  

Connect with the Pioneers

Focus your energies on the ones who don’t care what everyone else thinks. These kinds of people are always open to new ideas; they even feel special when they know they are exclusive.

As a creator, do not try to do what everyone else is doing. If you want to be successful, you got to start innovating, possibly at the beginning you will feel stupid and lonely, however, little by little you will start noticing how a small group of brave people will start embracing your offer.

The next step after you have achieved to create a small group of followers, is to keep delivering them consistent content.

Be patient, it will be only a matter of time before more people wants to join you.

Ordinary People is boring, they only will follow you once they feel safe. They don’t like to take risk, and they only do what others do – keep away from them.

It is at the end of the process and even after several years of trying and failing when certain people start becoming so popular that the sheep start following them.

In Marketing we call those The Laggards, they are the ones who will not adopt an innovation until it has become well established or owned by a great number of people, because, you know, they are so scared to be different and they definitely don’t want to be left behind.  

That’s why it is important to have a thick skin, sometimes you are going to do things that many will dislike or ignore, but you should not care what they think, only focus on the people who likes you. They are the real goldmine. They are Scarce and Valuable.

You cannot make yourself influential, Influential People need other people to talk about them, that is where they gain their influence.

If, for instance, I come here and write: “hey look at me I am so beautiful and smart, read me…”, you guys would be rolling your eyes up a lot…in contrast, if I rather to focus my attention on what my audience wants from me, and I give them what they want, the approaches differ considerably.

So, as you can see, it is not about you, it is about the audience. Each group of people is actually following the group who came first, so they are not following you, they are following each other.

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Given these points, I would like to make some final remarks:

Everybody Loves Beautiful People, Hypocrisy is Not a Solution

Men are Programmed by Nature- not by Society – To Respond Sexually to the visual.

Every year men spend billions of dollars to look at women with little clothing on, women spend virtually nothing to see unclothed men. Some say that the reason is that men are socialized into viewing women as sex objects and that women are socialized into not viewing men as sex objects, but if that was true, how do these people explain gay men? They are as aroused by pictures of naked men as straight men are aroused by pictures of naked women.

Stop sending selfies and unsolicited dick pics to your girl, that’s really gay

… send puppy pictures instead.

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Wanna be an Incel?

Go ahead! Keep pushing your Feminists’ sociocultural structure harder and harder to minimize the biological differences between males and females, but please understand, the more you do that, the more lonely, depressed and disappointed you will end in life.

Before social constructs we are humans biologically programmed for survival and propagation. Period.

I mean, it cracks me up when I see how so many of these social justice warriors who supposed to be more prone to believe in science and objective fact, are so willing to throw those out the window in the moment it becomes politically inconvenient for them.

To Not Visually Appreciate Beauty, it is like to Deny What Make Men Human.

Women tend to process life more emotionally and verbally. On the other hand, the visual alone arouse men. It takes far more to arouse a woman than seeing naked men, because if that was all it took, most husbands would walk around the house naked and fuck like hell.

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Do you think “Beautiful Women” have it easier to get Likes and Followers?

Next time you have something to say about “Pretty Privilege“, try to imagine yourself being a girl growing up listening everywhere that you have to be smart, attractive and independent, get up early for work, shower daily, exercise, spend money on outfits, creams, vitamins, gym card, dentist, facial treatments, nail care, perfumes, eyebrow coloring, lashes, fillers, makeup, body wax, accessories and hair products. Weight yourself before and after you’ve been eaten, then regret about every fucking calorie you ate…Did somebody say: BAD-LUCK GENETIC LOTTERY, no problem, spend more money, get plastic surgery, and yet, keep feeling insecure and unworthy… Oh shit, time to seek validation from horny strangers on social media, let’s post a video on Tiktok dancing like an idiot, release dopamine for about half an hour, get bored, put your phone away and return to your silly life…

Hmm Pretty Privilege sounds like Pretty Much Work, huh?

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What you find entertaining or inspiring is not always relevant.

I have been where you have been.

It is bloody frustrating, I know !

Frustration is what you feel when there is a dissonance between the person you think you are and the one that others think you are.

I know, it’s a bummer trying to be creative and be like, hey I am going to post this on social media because I think is funny, interesting, or clever. And then, afterward you realize, well, I did not get so many reactions.  

Then in my particular case, one day I happen to post a picture of myself for fun, and I can get so many likes and comments. You know, I laugh because they are so predictable.

I am going to get pissed about it?

No, I enjoy it and I like it. Hell Yes!

Stop telling Women What to Do. If you cannot enjoy something because Sexy Women are part of it… Dude, you have Real Mental Problems!

It is not like I think “Oh My God I am so beautiful”, and I base my entire self-worth on my looks, I don’t, it is You who do that!

If some of you only want me for my body, great, it is flattering, I don’t get offended, I mean, soon I’ll be old and ugly and you’ll be playing with 25-year-old ones.

I would be stupid if I don’t take advantage of being one healthy young woman now,… actually if I could dance like a TikTok girl I would do it, but unfortunately, I don’t have that talent. I suck at dancing! – Ha- joking!

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Anyway, getting back to the topic, do you think that the fact that beautiful women draw more attention…

• …is it going to make me stop creating content?

No !

• …is it going to make me post only sexy pictures?

No Way!

Because even if I like the way how I look, and I want to post sometimes something about my image. I am not interested in attracting horny guys, I am more interested in developing deeper connections with my followers. That’s why I like to write and talk, because I love having brain orgasms much more.

I don’t use social media for hookups, if I wanted that, I’d be on Tinder, which I’m not!

Of course, I appreciate all the compliments, but I appreciate even more when they also share my values and thoughts, or at least when they try to understand me and have themselves something interesting to talk about, those are the only people I care and the only ones I allow myself to interact with. They are Scarce and Valuable. I call them My Red Diamonds because They Are Very Unique and Special. ❤️

…And about the haters, I don’t worry about the haters…  You can say Damn Pat I hate you, You can say Damn Pat you are awesome, … Love me or Hate me… Either way I am on your mind!

Last words….

You don’t look so smart when you post things like this:

The day when millions of people pay TV companies to watch a doctor or nurse performing an operation; when they make millions through ticket sales and merchandise, then health care workers will earn this amount of money.

You just realized life’s unfair?

…ever heard about Medical Apartheid?

Doctors are something we don’t seem to appreciate so much these days. There are hospitals that right now are firing unvaccinated health care workers during a pandemic, just after they were the heroes who worked last year through the worst of it.

Many think is great that they are forced to leave their jobs…I guess those who think like that are too lazy to connect the dots… just saying…

A society that treats people like that says it all!

When there are gaping holes in the logic of The Mainstream Narrative, Critical Thinkers will fill in the gaps in order to make sense of the situation.

Step away from the herd!

Bottom line:

Be yourself, I mean, BE YOURSELF, not a copy-cat

Know your Audience and Engage with them, give them what they want and need…

And Next time when you look into your competitors, don’t think I am going to do it better, instead say to yourself, I am going to do it differently.

Be an innovator, not an imitator… it is a lonely place to be, but in the long term it will pay off.

Remember,

The best way to predict the future is to create it 🌷

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