Is there any feminist who can explain me how men are losing here?

For thousands of years men have wanted women to think that they want sex as they want… well, in our modern societies this finally happened, and with this, the lack of commitment became the order of the day

In the fantasy world where most liberals live in, the idea of sexual freedom sounds just awesome, but in reality, this unnatural behavior is just bringing devastating consequences to the western world, as evidence, the high increase of broken families, and the proliferation of the weak and immature men, the extremely unhappy lonely women, and the fatherless children, are a clear reflection of a society with low sex standards.

For that, I blame Feminism for selling us the lie that women are just like men, and can act like men sexually, when in fact, women are different, and the price that many of them have had to pay due to their poor sex performance is reflected in the high rates of depression among females and the increase of allegations of sexual assault against men.

We appreciate the things we work for

Remember when I previously explained you in my article Economics is not just about money. It is about making choices, that part where I said that Our Resources are limited…., well, this is the thing, if a guy has sex with a woman without having to work for it, where is the logic in investing more? Especially when men focus on variety and are more likely to be polygamous.

Let us never forget that when we invest our resources in something, we will protect that thing where we have invested, and we will never take it for granted; if for instance, we skip the hard work, we will tend to not find any true form of value in those things we didn’t have to make any effort to earn.  

Well, all the good men are in your 20s where you left them!

When women are younger they use to think that sleeping around make them cool and popular among men, yes, certainly they get a lot of attention, this might be flattering, and honestly, who cares, they are still young enough that long-term relationships or commitment to someone is no expected. However, once they’re getting older, being a promiscuous woman doesn’t seem to be so exciting anymore. 

As women get older their dating market value is only a small fraction of what it was in their 20’s, but in men, the very opposite is the case, (and here I am speaking of those attractive and ambitious gentlemen that can take care of themselves), these kind of guys as they age, are in the position to be very choosy, they can date from 20- to 50-year-old beautiful women without a problem.

You never win when you go against nature

Unfortunately, no one tells women what they need to hear, first, because men want to fuck them, second, because businesses want their money, and third, because politicians want their votes. To this end, women’s minds are so screwed up and despite all efforts towards gender equality, females have become very disconnected about their nature in their eagerness to be somebody they are not.

As the storyline progresses, Academia can continue pushing all their ridiculous feminist gender theories and Nations can continue writing and enforcing gender quotas, the fact is, no matter how hard they try, they will never be able to control Mother Nature. 

women are not equal

If men can do it why cannot women too?

Doesn’t matter how successful a woman is in her career or how much money she has, those kinds of things are not attractors to good men (unless they are broken). Not that these things are not important, but come on, you are an adult, being able to support yourself is kind of expected.

The big deal over moneymaking women is that most of the time they decide to put their careers ahead of love, marriage, and children, then suddenly they realize that the years have gone by, and if they didn’t tie one man down then, their future chances will be slim to none.

Women have a biological clock and is ticking, by the time they’re getting 30 their chances of conceiving and being a mother diminish rapidly. And to make things worse, many men rather just to date younger women so they don’t have to deal with the pressure to commit and breed.  

So, while women are getting ready for menopause past the age of 50, men can be Peter Pans up until old age, and they can avoid responsibility for much longer than women can.

Beyond doubt, Men have more freedom to invest time in themselves and build their financial empires, their careers, and at the same time, fool around with different women until they are, let’s say, 50 and they decide to finally fall in love with a beautiful 25-year-old girl, have kids and settle down.

Guys don’t have the time limits that women do, like it or not, it’s just nature:

Women are not equal to men! 

Back to the matter at hand, I don’t have any prudish attitude towards sex, and I’m not talking either from the perspective of a bitter bitch who cannot get laid. That’s not my case, however, my concern goes even farther than the moral implications. I based it more on the fact that I believe in win-win situations.

Sex without commitment has bigger costs and consequences for women. For instance, bad sex performance, absence of orgasms, sexually transmitted diseases, unwanted pregnancy, fatherless children, or what is worst, the physical and psychological side effects of an abortion. 

Having said that, if you are a woman, what are the benefits of having sex for free?

Research findings confirm that Casual sex makes women depressed

Back in the day, women wouldn’t sleep with a man unless they were certain he was capable to stick around and provide for her and her offspring. Nowadays if she’s having sex with men who are not going to commit to her, inevitably, there is going to be that inner voice inside her that’s going to tell her: Oh gosh I am really bad at picking men, I am really bad judging who is going to be able to commit to me”, and in addition to it, there’s also a whole self-esteem issue at play here like, Wow maybe I am not worthy of these guys sticking around, maybe I am not a person who worth somebody investing their time, energy and resources into”. 

By contrast, a man can go around and have sex with a bunch of women and be the same man the following day. In fact, he would be better in his own mind because he feels he raises his status. Then again, every time a woman has sex, she is making a huge gamble because she could potentially fall pregnant and have a child as a result of that encounter. So when women are indiscriminate about who they choose to have sex with, they are really acting against their deeply programmed biological instincts

To put it into context, think that we essentially have caveman brains walking around a modern society, so considering what sex means in the ancient context, it meant the expression of a deep bond between a man and a woman that were committing enough to each other so they could raise children. 

That said, if you as a woman have sex with the man and he has no intention of committing to you and it is just casual sex and never see each other again, at a deep level you’re going to feel like you messed up, there will be a sense of failure because you were unable to secure the commitment. 

FREE-for-All… until She regrets it later. 

The game of seduction is over!

Men and women who mutually agree to have sex are equally responsible for the outcome of it. That is why the age of consent exists, however, women somehow are being raised to stay irresponsible precious children forever, and therefore these so-called progressive societies are forced to make all these sex laws where two adults have to exchange consent notes before making any physical move, I mean, what a recipe for disaster, If I have to go on a date and I have to have an insecure guy asking me all the time what he is able to do or not, what a bummer! I mean, how fucking romantic is that? Where is the seduction game? Are we playing master and slave or what! 🙄🔫

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When did we become so stupid?

Underneath it all, I think that’s why when a woman feels used after intercourse with someone and then she regrets it the next day, or even 10 years after, she makes it like evidence that the sex was not consensual, therefore, rape. When the truth of the matter is basically that she have got a terrible misconception about human sexuality her entire existence. She has been told her whole life that she is free to do whatever she wants, with whoever she wants, whenever she wants, but nobody said to the damn woman that she won’t be able to escape the psychological consequences of her actions, so she feels the urge to blame someone else for the consensual sex she had that made her feel depressed.  

🙋‍♂️…We have the Dick; We Fuck The Rules!

I never knew a mentally stable woman who was happy having sex with no emotional attachments. So, unless you are a Porn Actress, a Prostitute, or a Not-so-good-looking one, there is absolutely no upside for a woman having casual sex with random losers who are not willing to bring something to the table.

To put it more simply, no matter how handsome he may be, beside the release of dopamine, you’ve got nothing to gain by spoiling a man who is not willing to commit to you. When you are cheap in terms of sex, you become disposable, you will never be anything more than a Booty Call.

… And even if you don’t give a damn about emotional love, safety and commitment, another key point is to remember that there are men who are paying for sex; in the player’s mind, you will always be a slut so, why you should give it for free anyway?

booty call

Draw the line!

Sex means nothing when there’s no real connection,

If you’re not having any girlfriend privileges, then why should he have any boyfriend benefits? 💁🏼‍♀️

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Well, eventually the baby grows up and stops crying!

Back in the day, feminism played an important part in terms of opening up opportunities for women so they could be financially independent of any men, and where women were able to pursue higher education levels or chase different career objectives instead of making family their ultimate purpose

The next you know, the casual sex, the contraceptive pill, and the right to abortion on demand were the additional ingredients of the recipe to complement women’s liberation. 

For the first time ever, sexual activities between consenting adults were not controlled!

100 years after and somewhere between then and now we have ended up weaker than ever.

The Liberation Movement which intended to empower women once, has become today in a pathetic group of toxic crying babies complaining about everything.

There’s this certain idea that if we can suppress men enough, women will find fulfillment. However, this male absence it’s having the opposite effect.

I think one of the biggest mistakes Feminism may make is to remove biology from its consideration, and chose to react based on that misperception. Feminism imagines that everything is socially constructed and mistakenly believes that it can re-enginneer our human interactions and live experiences based on infantile fantasies. 

Today, women seem to be less happy than they have been in the past, even though they have all the things, many of them have to live with the continuous sense of isolation and loneliness. Even if they are involved in an intimate relationship, they still feel incomplete. 

I think one of the reasons for that, is this idea of Feminism promoting men should act like women, and women should act like men; that is in a situation where women are expected to be strong and powerful and men vulnerable and insecure. When in fact, there’s nothing more dangerous than a woman pretending to be strong and a man playing the role of the weak.

See what I mean…

I have personally known many men in the snake-like weak cowardly sort of way, (big reason why I am single LOL). These men are those who never take any initiative, either they don’t know or are too lazy to woo a woman so she has to do all the work, from asking them out, to pay their bills, giving them sex, if it’s like they feel like to have sex, as they’re basically professional masturbators unable to enjoy sexual intercourse.

In addition, all the time you have to guess their minds, because they don’t seem to have the capability to show appreciation or disapproval, however, they love going behind your back, bitching about you and blaming you for their unhappiness.   

On the other hand, we have these kinds of Loud Women who pretend to be so confident and in control. They basically act like they don’t need anyone. They’re tough, strong, independent, until someone says, The Wrong Word”, What word? Never mind! They get offended by EVERYTHING… if you stare at them, if you find them attractive, try to tell them a joke, you’ll be accused of sexual harassment in a heartbeat; try to help them out with something, they feel like you are treating them as if they were incompetent, and to make matters worse, if there’s not like explicit sexual consent in writing you could easily be accused of a sexual offense of any kind!

What happened to the ability of people to learn how to drink in a sensible way in an adult context, and discourse with the opposite sex?

No matter how drunk both of you were to remember, the man will always be the rapist, because it does not matter how tough, strong, smart, and independent certain women are, at the end of the day, they will always play the role of the defenseless children who cannot solve their own problems and cannot handle being responsible for any of their actions. 

Grow up and Move ON!

There was a part in history where women demanded the authority figures to get out of their lives, and they wanted to be as free as men could be, however, here we are now calling Adult Protective Services.

Today this nonsense they call Feminism, is doing nothing more than weakening women, instead of strengthening them.

We must be aware that all the freedoms women won become absent whenever we keep on accepting all this State Paternalism.

For the Women’s Liberation Movement, what is this great achievement of breaking free from the fathers, the brothers, the husbands’ figures, and replace them later with big daddy government?

There’s nothing progressive in teaching women to act like men and still, protecting them as if they were children

Just how society used to police the sexuality of gay people, it’s now open season on the sexuality of heterosexual males, they’re monitored, and policed, and demonized, they are neutered!

Stop whining, Cry baby!

What happened with the responsibility that comes along with being an individual instead of the member of some group, especially a victimized group, which is like everybody´s being taught now that they are a victim and then no one seems to have any sense of the essential tragedy of being, that life is suffering, as women, we need so bad to be taught to take responsibility for our lives rather than build resentment, fear and blame men for all of our miseries if we want to stay strong. 

All these gender studies on which we wish to base our coexistence don’t account for differences in terms of biological body compositions. They tell you we all are equal, yes, before the law, but women and men are not the same and they will never be. Men and Women have different needs to meet, I mean, not even all women have the same kind of needs, so how the hell do we deal with those sex disparities? Micromanaging reality down to the pleasant? NO, that it is just delusional and naïve.

You cannot pretend that you could re-educate men and all this hysterical pathological projection of sexual violence will be gone. The world is a dangerous place to be, regardless of sex, some places more than others of course, but the risk factor will always be there. 

All in all, today’s Feminism is bullshit, is regressive, and is not empowering any woman. Their agenda needs to make women feel angry, threatened, unsatisfied, and scared whenever they tell them that the root of all women’s problems is caused by The Patriarchy. That’s bullshit!

If you want to be a free and strong woman you got to start to accept that every action has consequences and that you should not do anything that could harm you, don’t expect the world is going to change for you, the world is what it is.

if you want to feel safe, start by setting boundaries, learn to stand up for yourself, even in terms of your sexual relations. Stop looking to daddy figures and mommy figures on the government and grievance committees.

Life is tough my darling, but so are you

you have to be able to handle yourself on the street, on your working place, take space, be able to speak back, have a big voice and a big attitude, it’s up to you to decide what you want, every woman is responsible for her own self, for her own sexuality, you are responsible, stop thinking there’s going to be a parent figure to get you out of trouble, whenever you decide what you want, something will happen to you, if it goes wrong, you learn from it and you move on.

Sweetheart stay true to your tune, take responsibility, complain less and be happier 🌷

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