By his intellect man is mere spirit and by his appetite mere animal. We need both. Take away one, and you’re left with a man who’s either weak or wicked… and in a world of wickedness, weak men are nothing more than enablers of wicked men. – The Abolition of Man, C.S. Lewis

… And all of a sudden, every straight man was suffering from “toxic masculinity!”…

The Shaming of Masculinity instead to make our society stronger, is just causing a crisis in the development of Young Men.

There is this false belief in the Western world that all men are bad, and they need to be taught how to be good. Maybe as early as the age of five, society is starting teaching boys about toxic masculinity, they are teaching boys that they are inherently bad and that they need to behave more like women if they want to be accepted.

While young males are growing up, we prepare them to be someone that they are not, and then later when they become adults, they wonder why they have so many problems to fit in this world, why they cannot have a good and healthy relationship with their loved ones, why do so many of them lack the capacity to compete against others?

Perhaps, when they were little their parents told them that it is a good thing for boys to cry and be emotional, but they forgot to also tell them that if they want to be successful in life, they need to develop a strong and competitive attitude, they need to be tough, and when things are difficult, instead of moaning and complaining, they need to try harder, because in this life no man would ever amount to anything unless they put the effort in and fight.

We seem to only focus on Women’s Rights, but Hey, Men also deserve to be treated with Dignity and Respect!

Ask yourself these questions: Who are the ones building all our infrastructures? who are the ones that when we have had horrible situations are out there risking their lives to save us? Who are the ones making all the dirty work? it is Men!

Throughout the ages, it is heroic men who have died and sacrificed themselves for the women and the children. Basically, we could not have achieved all the greatest things in our culture without hard-working and the risk-taking of courageous men.

So, just to make this clear, all this narrative of the women’s oppression is complete bullshit. It is so ungrateful, and so historically ignorant and whenever I see a person driving that narrative forward, the only thing that I can think of is, how sorry I feel for these men and women who never have had a satisfactory relationship with a single man in their entire lives.  

I can actually say, without a damn doubt, that Traditional Masculinity is the one who has made the world run.

Leave No One Behind – A Call to Action for Gender Equality?

The vast majority of people killed in wars are men; the vast majority of men occupy still today the most dangerous jobs on the planet, 97% of the workforce fatalities are men. Isn’t it funny that we don’t hear any feminist calling for Gender Quotas in The Military, in The Construction, in The Logging, in The Steel or The Fishing industry yet?

Positive Masculinity is Hot As Fuck

Do not forget that masculinity was born from a natural desire for men to provide for and protect their community. Many of the qualities which make a man masculine are things to be celebrated.

For instance, a man who is working ten-hour a day to feed, clothe and shelter his family, that guy building houses, the firefighter who is rescuing a child from a burning building, the policeman who is arresting a perpetrator of domestic abuse, rape, or murder, the soldier who is putting his life at risk to protect our way of life, those who defend our freedoms, and ensure our nations, the young man who shields his girlfriend with his jacket when it’s cold and raining, all these are examples of Masculinity doing good.

The Absence of Positive Masculinity Damages Society

When Men embrace their Masculinity in a way that is Healthy and Productive, they are Leaders, Warriors, and Heroes. However, a society that seems to not want boys to grow up and be men, a society that teaches them to deny their Masculinity, and all this narrative that Masculinity is fundamentally Toxic, is not only hurting Men but is actually causing more damage to Women.

Contrary to what many people believe, we cannot re-educate all Men, there are always going to be a few bad apples, and who the hell is going to be that one who will save the world from evil? Certainly not a passive feminine male character. Do you know why? Because Passive men don’t lead, they don’t defend, they don’t protect, they don’t provide.

In simple words, Passive men don’t have the conditions required that society needs to thrive.

War on Masculinity? Society cannot survive without Strong Men!

Masculinity is not toxic, Lack of it is.

These are times where men are under an enormous pressure in a way they never have been. These are times of confusion where the lines between the sexes are blurred, and the roles are unclear.

Meanwhile, we celebrate these things as positive steps towards equality and progressivism, it is clear that many Men simply do not know where they fit in anymore or how they should behave in a world that has practically replaced them with Vibrators, Sperm Banks, and Child Support Payments.  

We have created a world where Men are constantly under attack, where their manhood is constantly being questioned and there is a significant confusion over their role in the society.

A world where Men must tread on eggshells wondering how to interact with Women, especially since the #Metoo movement started, there is this kind of war against men where media and schools are teaching boys and girls that men are all predators and women are all helpless victims until proven otherwise, a world where every woman and every man have to worry from a kiss hello, from a compliment, from someone opening a door, I mean, things which in days gone by, were a sign of respect and chivalrousness that today are viewed in some circles as sexist and overbearing.

Then when we speak about relationships, well, things get worst. The same Masculine Traits society seems to want to eliminate in Men, seem to be the same ones We Celebrate in Women, for instance, to be so full of purpose, being aggressive, and to pursue leadership roles are some good examples of this.

Today, many couples and marriages are turning into something where women wield the majority of power and want to control all. This, in part, is because many women think that to be feminine is a sign of weakness, so they prefer to assume a dominant role in the relationship, just because they are so afraid that an alpha type of male walks over them and run them maybe like slaves…

…Although another reason might be that Today’s Men have become so incompetent that some women are just so afraid to trust their judgment.

Whatever it is, Masculine Men don’t relate with these kinds of Women, so these Women have no choice but to go and find these Feminine Men who are following them everywhere and do anything they want. It sounds good at first, but all we know how this ends, the relationship goes to hell, obviously, no woman really wants to have a pushover at home.

When a Woman gets married and decides to have a family, She wants to have someone she could look up to with trust and respect.

She is seriously expecting to have an adult man who is willing to support, provide and protect her and her kids. Certainly, these are things that a Feminine Man cannot offer in a relationship, so once a woman finds out this, she kicks him out right away. Not for nothing, statistics tell us that nearly 90% of divorces are initiated by women with a college education.

It is understandable, a woman who has a job, who has money, and welfare benefits doesn’t need to stay together with a weak man who is not able to make her feel safe and happy.

I guess it must to be just so exhausting to be the only adult in the relationship, I mean, it is as if a woman apart from taking care of herself, her job, her kids, she also has to take care of a Man-Child. No way.

The Crisis of Fatherlessness: Dad-deprived boys.

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So, the consequences of these broken homes are the highest rate of children raised in single-parent households, usually with intermittent prolonged father absence.

Without a father figure, these boys are forced to live from a feminized home environment to a feminized education system and then some of them go on to work in an increasingly feminized workplace where they are shamed and guilt-tripped for being Strong and Masculine.  

And so, the cycle repeats itself, once a Boy has to grow up without a Dad, He will inevitably turn into a mentally disturbed individual unable to find a sense of purpose in this world. He will find himself living in a society where Media and Politicians will pull away all the attention away from the many beautiful things that most masculine men achieve every day, and instead, He will be publicly shamed for the crimes that a small portion of bad men do.

On the other hand, this is an opportunity I can’t pass up to raise the issue that the number one problem facing Black America is not Systemic Racism although that is what every brainwashed person is telling you. The number one issue facing Black America is a large number of Black Kids who are raised without a Father. I can quote you Obama if you’d like, he said: “A Kid Raised without a Dad is five times more likely to be poor and commit crime, nine times more likely to drop out of school and 20 times more likely to end up in jail“ …

… Now the question is why are 70% of Black Kids today raised without a father at home? – To Learn More, Check My Article, Black Lives Matter Does Not Care About Any Live!

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Ending violence and harassment against women is a good thing, but not because we are given the option to suppress masculinity in all men, we are going to solve these problems.

Some men are just not good men, there always will be around psychotic or narcissistic creeps and pervs who will never understand the concept of consent, personal space, and will never respect boundaries and women preferences. And this is the reason why we are in need of more Brave Masculine Men in our societies. We need individuals who are willing to stop the bad men, the bad women, and the bad children from being bad.

To make this a reality, we got to stop the demonization of men and male behavior. And instead, we need to encourage our boys to be masculine in a positive way.

Boys have to learn how to find meaning in life and become as useful as they possibly can. They can feel sad, they can feel frustrated, but They need to learn how to deal with failure and rejection because everything that happens to us in life is just tests to see how bad we want something or someone.

Young men need to take ownership of their lives, they are the ones in control, teach them how to do their job right, and live a life in such a way that they don’t cause any trouble to others. And someday, when they are able of taking responsibility for themselves, they might think about taking on the responsibility of a family and contributing to their community.

They will become husbands who will protect and provide for their wives, and they will set a good example for their children.

A Grown Masculine Man who has his shit together, will be a King and treat his woman like a Queen. He will protect his daughter from predators and losers. And most importantly, He will show his daughter how good a man can be, so once she grows up, she will not need to become a resentful lesbian enrolled in any victimized group, say, modern feminism.

And if this father is lucky enough, he will also have a boy who will learn from him respect, leadership skills, discipline, structure, and kindness. So, once he grows up, he can turn into a functioning adult with the ability to protect his community, keep his own family together, and achieve a good life.

Trouble finding a girl? Man up!

Give that woman the best you have without losing your self-respect or her respect for you

Not because you are manly you are offensive towards women. You can only get it wrong when you come as a rude dude with an attitude. Think Win-Win. Everything in life is a negotiation. If you are trying to get a woman to say yes to something, you are in a negotiation. If you find a girl you like, be smart, seduce her, talk to her, women love to be heard, get yourself time to know her, provide her with what she needs, and she will give you whatever you want. I promise you; she will never leave you. Especially now when good men are scarce.

Remember: Everything positive a man does for his woman benefits him🌷