Well, eventually the baby grows up and stops crying!

Back in the day, feminism played an important part in terms of opening up opportunities for women so they could be financially independent of any men, and where women were able to pursue higher education levels or chase different career objectives instead of making family their ultimate purpose. 

The next you know, the casual sex, the contraceptive pill, and the right to abortion on demand were the additional ingredients of the recipe to complement women’s liberation. 

For the first time ever, sexual activities between consenting adults were not controlled!

100 years after and somewhere between then and now we have ended up weaker than ever.

The Liberation Movement which intended to empower women once, has become today in a pathetic group of toxic crying babies complaining about everything.

There’s this certain idea that if we can suppress men enough, women will find fulfillment. However, this male absence it’s having the opposite effect.

I think one of the biggest mistakes Feminism may make is to remove biology from its consideration, and chose to react based on that misperception. Feminism imagines that everything is socially constructed and mistakenly believes that it can re-enginneer our human interactions and live experiences based on infantile fantasies. 

Today, women seem to be less happy than they have been in the past, even though they have all the things, many of them have to live with the continuous sense of isolation and loneliness. Even if they are involved in an intimate relationship, they still feel incomplete. 

I think one of the reasons for that, is this idea of Feminism promoting men should act like women, and women should act like men; that is in a situation where women are expected to be strong and powerful and men vulnerable and insecure. When in fact, there’s nothing more dangerous than a woman pretending to be strong and a man playing the role of the weak.

See what I mean…

I have personally known many men in the snake-like weak cowardly sort of way, (big reason why I am single LOL). These men are those who never take any initiative, either they don’t know or are too lazy to woo a woman so she has to do all the work, from asking them out, to pay their bills, giving them sex, if it’s like they feel like to have sex, as they’re basically professional masturbators unable to enjoy sexual intercourse.

In addition, all the time you have to guess their minds, because they don’t seem to have the capability to show appreciation or disapproval, however, they love going behind your back, bitching about you and blaming you for their unhappiness.   

On the other hand, we have these kinds of Loud Women who pretend to be so confident and in control. They basically act like they don’t need anyone. They’re tough, strong, independent, until someone says, “The Wrong Word”, What word? Never mind! They get offended by EVERYTHING… if you stare at them, if you find them attractive, try to tell them a joke, you’ll be accused of sexual harassment in a heartbeat; try to help them out with something, they feel like you are treating them as if they were incompetent, and to make matters worse, if there’s not like explicit sexual consent in writing you could easily be accused of a sexual offense of any kind!

What happened to the ability of people to learn how to drink in a sensible way in an adult context, and discourse with the opposite sex?

No matter how drunk both of you were to remember, the man will always be the rapist, because it does not matter how tough, strong, smart, and independent certain women are, at the end of the day, they will always play the role of the defenseless children who cannot solve their own problems and cannot handle being responsible for any of their actions. 

Grow up and Move ON!

There was a part in history where women demanded the authority figures to get out of their lives, and they wanted to be as free as men could be, however, here we are now calling Adult Protective Services.

Today this nonsense they call Feminism, is doing nothing more than weakening women, instead of strengthening them.

We must be aware that all the freedoms women won become absent whenever we keep on accepting all this State Paternalism.

For the Women’s Liberation Movement, what is this great achievement of breaking free from the fathers, the brothers, the husbands’ figures, and replace them later with big daddy government?

There’s nothing progressive in teaching women to act like men and still, protecting them as if they were children. 

Just how society used to police the sexuality of gay people, it’s now open season on the sexuality of heterosexual males, they’re monitored, and policed, and demonized, they are neutered!

Stop whining, Cry baby!

What happened with the responsibility that comes along with being an individual instead of the member of some group, especially a victimized group, which is like everybody´s being taught now that they are a victim and then no one seems to have any sense of the essential tragedy of being, that life is suffering, as women, we need so bad to be taught to take responsibility for our lives rather than build resentment, fear and blame men for all of our miseries if we want to stay strong. 

All these gender studies on which we wish to base our coexistence don’t account for differences in terms of biological body compositions. They tell you we all are equal, yes, before the law, but women and men are not the same and they will never be. Men and Women have different needs to meet, I mean, not even all women have the same kind of needs, so how the hell do we deal with those sex disparities? Micromanaging reality down to the pleasant? NO, that it is just delusional and naïve.

You cannot pretend that you could re-educate men and all this hysterical pathological projection of sexual violence will be gone. The world is a dangerous place to be, regardless of sex, some places more than others of course, but the risk factor will always be there. 

All in all, today’s Feminism is bullshit, is regressive, and is not empowering any woman. Their agenda needs to make women feel angry, threatened, unsatisfied, and scared whenever they tell them that the root of all women’s problems is caused by The Patriarchy. That’s bullshit!

If you want to be a free and strong woman you got to start to accept that every action has consequences and that you should not do anything that could harm you, don’t expect the world is going to change for you, the world is what it is.

if you want to feel safe, start by setting boundaries, learn to stand up for yourself, even in terms of your sexual relations. Stop looking to daddy figures and mommy figures on the government and grievance committees.

Life is tough my darling, but so are you…

you have to be able to handle yourself on the street, on your working place, take space, be able to speak back, have a big voice and a big attitude, it’s up to you to decide what you want, every woman is responsible for her own self, for her own sexuality, you are responsible, stop thinking there’s going to be a parent figure to get you out of trouble, whenever you decide what you want, something will happen to you, if it goes wrong, you learn from it and you move on.

Sweetheart stay true to your tune, take responsibility, complain less and be happier 🌷

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